The Rabbit Isn’t Just A Pet!
YOU HAVE TO BE 18 AND OLDER TO READ THIS WRITE UP!
Well, I have to admit that in recent times – I have gotten way quieter on the issue of sexuality. Not really because I do not want to talk about sex but rather because I did not know how to approach it, talk about it in a way that is realistic, pleasing and isn’t just attention gathering. In the past couple of months, I have gotten several emails about the issue I am about to write on and these emails have been urging me to discuss this. Yes, basically, we will be talking about sex toys.
A Brief History On Sex Toys:
Clicking on this link takes us to a brief history of sex toys. We see that porn existed in prehistoric times (before Christ’s time) and the Dildo isn’t a recent invention but existed in 1400. Read up on it, I found these facts to be quite interesting.
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What do these sex toys do?
a) Clitoral stimulation
b) Gspot stimulation
c) anal stimulation
d)penis, testicle, nipple stimulation
e) multiple orgasms (*****)
f) different sexual positions.
Interestingly, when people talk about sex toys – they often stop at the vibrator, cock ring or dildo but there are more sex toys than these. Do your research and let me know (pamelastitch@zimbabwemetro.com).
I am sure many of you are wondering why I will like to discuss this. Well, beyond, the fact that I have received several mails about this issue but I often read funny comments on facebook regarding sex toys, dildos and vibrators in particular, that I thought it best to address this.
I remember, talking to a good friend a couple of years ago and asking him, how he will feel, if he came into his apartment and saw his gf/ fiancee using a sex toy (let’s say a dildo) – he stated categorically that the relationship will be over because he feels that the woman is cheating with him with that toy. Guys, do you agree with his analysis?
Religion and Sex Toys:
Often, I feel that the church is quiet about certain aspects of sexuality. This and masturbation being two major areas that there is complete silence from religious institutions on. For those that use sex toys, they state that by using sex toys – they are not fornicating and as such they are keeping to the letter of their religious institutions. On the contrary, others argue, that by using sex toys – they are performing lustful acts which are in the same category with fornication and such its use is a huge no! no! What do you say about that?
Diseases!
You know my write up will not be complete unless I talk about STDS. Proponents for the use of sex toy state that if more people used these toys – there will be less STDS out there because there is no transfer of sexually transmitted diseases either via sperm or saliva? Do you agree with their analysis?
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Advantages of sex toys:
a) Enhances communication between you and your partner particularly if used in the right way, that is, openly.
b)Enhances your sex life with or without a partner.
c) They also make a great substitute partner for periods when one is in between sexual relationships.
d) Sex toys allow men and women to tap into creative sex.
Well, I really don’t know. But I will like to know this, if I or someone you knew, came up to you and told you that they were going to purchase a sex toy will you support them?
I will end my write up with this:
you can write me at pamelastitch@zimbabwemetro.com
Posted by Pamela Stitch
on November 30, 2009. Filed under Zweli Lunga's Blog.
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