Does it lie in the way I hold myself or the actions that I take? Last night, I got a chance to tell one of my stories to a friend of mine, after laughing his head off at my naivety and calling me a bush girl - he then proceeded to tell me that the material was an aphrodisiac and that I should have felt worked up to perform.

I have had the pleasure of talking to a couple of men from different ethnicities (Black, White, Asian, Latino) and it seems that the common consensus is that they really aren’t a fan of all that lingerie.