With Or Without It?
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August 10, 2008 | By Pamela Stitch | © zimbabwemetro.com ⋅
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It is no secret that a lot of women love dressing up. We spend an inordinate amount of time and money visiting our local Victoria Secret stores, Frederick of Hollywood and any other store that offers intimate apparels - with the hopes of ensuring that our bed mates are ultimately happy. But, I have often wondered - are women actually partaking in this lingerie shopping for themselves or for their men?
I have had the pleasure of talking to a couple of men from different ethnicities (Black, White, Asian, Latino) and it seems that the common consensus is that they really aren’t a fan of all that lingerie. In fact, a German man I spoke with about this female obsession told me and I quote, “I prefer my woman butt naked on the bed!”.
Now, as I sit here, pondering while viewing the Victoria Secrets website, I wonder, “is it worth it?”.
So, women - do you shop for that sexual moment? Men, how do you like your women with or without?
Nothing beats visual, works for me at least. It’s not only lingerie, a tight fitting dress will do as well. Eventually everything must come off but the ‘apparel’ definitely give me a great jump start.
In my interactions with women, single and hooked up alike, lingerie seems to give confidence. There seems to be a ‘general concensus’ that it makes them feel sexy hence the confidence. Please do carry on shopping, we love it!
Your back - I was so scared that with all the changes, some readers will kinda dissappear.
I like mine with it too. It definitely adds something on an intimate night. I must add that it is essential for a woman to know her body and what lingerie is best for her body rather than just going with the flow. Should it be done solely for your man? I don’t think so. I prefer my woman to be as comfortable as she can be and if it means she’s comfortable without lingerie, then we will have to devise an alternative which makes both of us happy.
Bhurugwa ndizvo! I agree entirely with the tight-fitting dress theory as well. I mean you gotta do a bit of “maths” in your head before you get to the real pie. Kana zvakangovhurika it ain’t so “appetising”. I think thongs are kinda over-rated tho. I prefer kuona tumaboxer shorts!!! Haikona zvinoitika ipapo!!!
pammy …. who really cares when 1. i m finally getting laid 2. i am not paying for it, she cld be wearing a chikorobho but i will still do her over like i am fresh out of jail and on viagra (emphasis is on like…)
hpm: so you’re saying that Mr. German is wrong…but I also asked other black men and they concurred with him. Oh well…..
ketai: lol!! are thongs over rated? that is a question for another day. But, boxer shorts are definitely more comfortable.
tonde: lol!! I need to go look for a picture of chikorobho (never heard of this word till now)…lol…good luck on ‘doing’ her. LOL! So you really do not care if she is with or without?
fascinating…so are we saying here that Zim men are fans of lingerie???? hmmmmm…
I think women are constantly making themselves look good so as to feel good about themselves. The excuse that they are doing for men is just that - an excuse. If men were removed from this earth, lesbians and right wing feminists would celebrate of course but the fashion industry would continue unabated.
My personal preferences:
- accidentally seeing panties when my woman is climbing out of her car.
- a flash of a boob when my woman is hurriedly dressing up for work.
- breasts trying to break free from the clutches of a tight tee-shirt.
…the list goes on. While Victoria Secrets lingerie is nice and well designed, they are too much of a suggestion. The thing about the flash of underwear has to do with the fact that looking under a woman’s skirt is taboo. So if she is wearing clothes that are meant to cover up everything and she slips up and I accidentally see what she is covering up, then the “secret” is really out. That beats victoria’s secrets any day.
i dont like clothes in the love factory.
Come on folks! The lingerie is a vital part of the whole process. It aids to the steaminess and I think it makes the whole process more exciting. It’s good to have an appetizer b4 the final act. But then again…muri kubasa boss vabuda and the secretary haana bhurugwa??? Table yaboss ain’t being minded. A thousand thots go thru yo heads. “Secretary haana bhurugwa”….ummm I think it is circumstantial as well!!!
I prefer my woman naked!
Lingerie plays the trick amagents. Laying is a game of the mind and the build up to it is quite important if mutual satisfaction is to be achieved.
Of course I prefer my woman naked, that is eventually naked. Seeing her untie those tight lings unbundling her beauty makes me go crazy amajimbos.
Am sure to those who are anit-lings, maybe they have an inbuilt sex appeal which needs no jump start to crank it up.
Am out of here malume!!
Ndinoda kabhurugwa ndigo tamba nako ndichikananzva nekukabaya nayo ndichikwidza nekudzika ka g-string kanosiya matinji kunze ndichimadhonza nekupurudzira iwe!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Jonsa - hmmmmmmm…all I can tell you right now is….shame… and good luck.
So apart from Con and Ti everyone else is a fan of the lingerie…
you girls are cheating us on this blog everytime you put up questions to help you as woman..we man we want to know too e.g how many times do women climax, what do you consider to be good sex, what kind of men do you like,do you like aerobic like sex how long should sex lasts, the common mistakes we make. Come on tell us
It is nice that your crappy articles have some kind of redemption.
lol.. Ganda so sensitive about my articles…..must have hit on some of your truths! LOL!! You will be okay….
khuluma sikhwehle ngiyakuzva m’ntakababa