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I remember having an intimate discussion with a friend of mine about size and he was of the strongest belief that size matters to women and since he was below average, he felt insecure about exploring his sexuality. He felt that women will laugh at him when it came down to that moment. I have to admit that wasn’t the first time that I have come across this issue. Afterall, many jokes, sites exists that makes the myth size seem like a reality. As another friend of mine states,”if you ask the average African woman about size, she will say the bigger the better”. I thought it was time to investigate this idea a little bit closely.
For many men, the idea of size is one which fills them with insecurity as they believe that size actually does matter in making women sexually satisfied. Many industries have taken note of this insecurity and created answers to this dissatisfaction – we see these answers in the drugs that exists as well as the option of penis enlargement surgery which some men have chosen to undergo. But, I have often wondered -”does size really matter when it comes down to satisfying a woman”. What part of this fear is actually real and what part is actually paranoia?
I came across some interesting facts about penis size. According to the website, askmen.com, ” a comprehensive worldwide study of more than 40 independent penis size research projects, undertaken since 1942, has come up with a general penis size guideline. With over 11,000 participants, the survey puts the average erect size of the adult penis between 5.5 inches(14cm ) and 6.2inches(15.7cm) in length and 4.7 inches(11.9cm) and 5.1 inches(13cm) in girth”. So if the average size is about 5.5 inches(14cm), and most men fall in this range then what is the source of this dissatisfaction? This study also went ahead to look at the idea of perception and how that factors in with their dissatisfaction. The study asked ” more than 50,000 heterosexual men and women how they rated their own size or the size of their partner. They found that 85% of women were satisfied with their partner’s penile size, but only 55% of men were satisfied”. Hmm, now this gets more interesting. So basically, men were the one’s putting this issue on themselves rather than women as we are led to believe. If it is safe to hazard a guess, I will say that this sense of insecurity comes from men paying way too much attention to their size and comparing their size to the porn stars that they watch too frequently from porn movies.
So men, get over yourself. Focus on other parts of your body. Stop loving your ‘member’ too much. Focus on learning how to please a woman because a woman will invite you back for second bite, if you a) know what your doing b) make sure she is satisfied in bed c)you know her erogenous zones. I will end by saying, size does NOT matter rather what matters is the motion of the ocean. You dig?
Till next time,
Pammy
Size matters………..I have had a couple of women saying….”yours is too big”….I keep quiet knowing the athey are comparing me with previous lovers…..as for me I know I am too big , so do it gently unles otherwise asked to do it hard. As for the surveys most men lie……..at the public urinary that is were you know the truth. People should realise the the porn stars are in to make money , who would watch a movie with a smallanyana d&*K…….the b**** the better, as for my women too I like them big and not tight. Becoz the tight onces always complain of pain……..even when aroused.
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The big-chested Makosi also reveals that she has only ever had sex with SEVEN men since losing her virginity aged 18.
“Seven definitely,” she says, “but two I’m questioning… I don’t know whether that qualifies to be called sex. Sometimes the man’s tool is too small you think ‘is that a finger?’ Girls out there will tell you sometimes they ask, ‘what was that?’” source: http://www.newzimbabwe.com/pages/fame55.19767.html
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Size matters a lot. For instance someone having sex with a fat woman. If u have a short one u get as far as thighs which is very dangerous. Many women hesitate to communicate about this to their man but vanoda inorova panhongonya chaipo. Satisfaction doesn’t matter about religion so don’t panic about my comments as your media pastor. Tushodhaya hatuite but tunoda oral sex as an addition. So size matters. An abnormal big one causes pain especially to those who have never given birth.
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My greatest worry….an average penis girth of 11.9 to 13.0 cm!! I guess you need to correct the units here. Change the girth inches to cm i.e 4.7 cm to 5.1 cm aaah …feeling much better now!
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pammy
Thanks for raising this subject which gives many men sleepless nights.Size of course matters and l know when l was growing up at primary(Alaska),secondary boarding(Kutama) and college(UZ) we used to boast about size and some of us who were lucky to be well endowed even had nicknames coined from our genitalia. Taitokokonyara nemazita acho.Zvaidadisa.Anyway l wonder why size should be restricted to men only as it seems to be the case here.Love and sex are two way.So does the size of a woman’s buttocks(matako),breasts(mazamu) also matter and enhance sexuality and love making as much as the men’s joy stick? Isu tainzi vanhu vekumugodhi tine mbingura! zvakoma.
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Pammy
Thanks for the information. I always tell boyz rakawanda kuti it’s not about size it’s all about the motion in the flow not the size of the boat. I personally have a small one but I know how to use it, vakadzi vese vandaka kwira vanochema nekunakirwa whether Jamaican, Spanish, African, African American or white. Vamwe vakadzi vevanhu but vanoramba vachidzoka for more. My friends vanofunga kuti ndino mushonga. Pazvinhu izvi you gotta be able to use the tools you have and be thorough. Either unogona kukwira kana kuti haugone. Saka iwewe Pammy from you own personal experiences unofunga kutii about this issue?
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It depends nemunhu arikukwirwa wacho, kana ari tight or not .Vamwe vanoda hombe ,vamwe vanoda diki.Depending nekuti arikuiswa wacho ndiani so size matters .Matumbu varume ngaaite mashoma get rid of the 1 pack (pot belly) and see how size changes.
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musoro mutsuku wakaoma vabvunze vakadzi vese vanukutaurira.RedHead(aka. rovambira)
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Why sizes matters is because some women have too big holes (tsime chairo or bako/cave), so sometimes you are not sure whether you are in or out. it becomes when this tsime has too much water…..kubvu…kubvu…kubvu…bururu.uuuuu..u….bhu..u
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Sex is a matter of perception. A lot of factors come into play. I recently had an encounter with this gal and she was screaming with pleasure the whole time. I used the same moves on another but did not get the same response. Iwe urikuti vakadzi vevamwe varikuda hombe yako. Wako mukadzi might be chemerera on the smallest possible. It all depends on her perception and state of mind.
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Munonyeperwa zvenyu boyz , size matters a lot. Ndiani mukadzi wawakambonzwa iwe anoda diki uye kupi kwacho . Ukangoita kadiki unototizwa chete. I have a relation ane kadiki chaiko asi akatizwa nemukadzi vaenda ku honeymoon wani akasviko udza vatete vake kuti hapana zvemurume uye haachaamudi . Ko wekuZambia akanga ajaira kubaya mwana wavaridzi nezihombe , handiti akazoinda kucourt akapihwa divorce judge aona kuti murume aikuvadza mukadzi wake here .
Hazvisi zvekunyepa izvi ichokwadi chaicho , saka size matters , ane hombe ndiye mukuru we.Ende vakadziwo ndivo vanozvikonzera nekuti vanoda hombe chete bedzi.
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Haaa inin I don’t care so long tichikwira pamsoro. wat am worried about now is those i have had nasty social expereinces in the past still stalking me. Pammy wat can I do to show them handisisina interest but not make them angry(OR sum I’ll never luv a man again stuff)?
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size doesnt matter and it matters as well but kan munhu uchigona kunyatso kwira **** rino adjuster to the size imagine if you have zihombe rinongo pinda anorwdziwa for 2 minutes but after that anofa nekunakirwa which means iwe kugona kwako ndiko kunoita kuti mubhu akupe mbiri nekupi unoita zihombe but can not last more 10 minutes but ane average can go 30 40 minutes
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you people donot lie to one another.do you tell me a woman is so insensitive that she can not tell the difference between a large thing getting between her legs and a little one?that defies all natural science principles.inga huro wani ukaedza kumedza mbambaira iri too big unotokachidzwa.musataura as if m b u t u is something from outer space mhani.that thing will stretch and the owner mugomunzwa achigomereswa naro binyi.size matters.it is unfortunate that many people have little items and they try to down play those who have the real stuff.a donkey and a bull are basically about same body size but a donkey is carrying big.have you seen how a feamle donkey does when its in?rinoshama dhongwi rigotsengerera rakabhenderera so because of the size .the only problem is that some sizes are too big for the blood flow so they end up softening.musanyeberane size ndizvo.any woman will enjoy any good sex that is true but any woman will feel a big one when she meets it
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Hie Pamela
Is your article based on the research done only or on your personal experience. I really know for sure at your age you have had more than one size encounter so what is your personal opinion big or small, or it’s the satisfaction irrespective of size.
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Pammy size does matter sha. mine is too tiny I am ashamed of having sexual intercourse.If you say it does not matter let me come and try it on you.
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Pammy Pammy Pammy
I am sorry for being late girl but let me break it down like it has never been broken before. Forget the survey because they were asking white people anyway.
Point 1.
It’s not about the size of the boat that rocks the party but the motion in the ocean is what matters. Careful analysis of your woman’s turn on spots will make you look and feel like a Panther. Most people they turn of lights too much and they do not even know the anatomy of your woman or man, therefore, when they engage in sex its like throwing a stone to a Hyena that is just threatening from the dark. You need to see punani then you work on it with such precession that amai or musikana anokutenda nemutupo kana wazopedza.
Point 2.
Some women when they give birth, especially those in the Diaspora, they do not know certain African medication that are used to tighten the punani after birth, therefore the punani will remain too wide, therefore less friction when having sex, then deprived from having great sex. And the end result is blaming the guy that his penis is too small because it’s not filling her up. There is Kegel Exercises done for those who are not in Zim to tighten the punani.
Point 3.
Most women do not even know their body, so it becomes difficult to give pleasure to a person like that because it’s already physiological in their mind that the deeper it goes the more she gets the pleasure, Wrong!!! It’s the tightness or thickness that gives pleasure not the deepness. More-over, clitoris are outside not inside as they are the ones that need the most stimulation before the gee-spot, also which is outside but hidden in the lips of the clitoris. Men who suck their wives or girlfriend have more chances of pleasuring a woman than people who just use the penis only because it’s hard to hit a g-spot with a penis as it is hidden and needs special skills to reach it, which most men do not have. That it is why lesbians can give pleasure to each other than they can get from a man because they know each others bodies so well and the slick the right spots at the right time.
Anenzeve dzekunzwa anzwa
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Vakadzi vanonakirwa nezvinhu zvakasiyana. Some enjoy u whispering nice stuf to them hence telephone sex and can climax just from talking.I had a girl who used to reach climax nekungobatwa mazamu chete. Pakuzopinda kwangova kuzadzisa chirango. In five minutes she would have had multiple orgasms. So if u were to bang such a girl for 40 minutes it wil now be torcher .
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Nice subject Pammy.
l agree with Parks.well written.for your own information the g-spot in a woman is just 3 inches inside the vagina.most penus are 4 inches and above.a longer penus is good when it comes to making children.it gets deeper inside the vagina.but for just having sex and pleasuring yourselves its just having to know how to stimulate a woman on the clit,labia and the g-spot.
dont worry guys its how u use your tools.dont watch porn thats not real,all is people making money.watch love films not porn.
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the new look is far much better .Good Job Metro ,Good Jod, well done .Kusatenda Huroyi
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EVERY MAN THINKS ABOUT THIS SUBJECT.
WHATS FUNNY IS THAT YOU NEVER EVER HEAR GUYS SAYING MINE IS SMALL.
MUNHU WESE ANE HOMBE…………..
SO NYAYA YACHO INONETSA.
MAYBE WE SHOULD JUST STOP LYING TO OURSELVES AND FOCUS ON THINGS THAT REALLY MATTER.
JUST IMAGINE IF YOU HAD 12 INCHES…………….
YOU WOULD STILL FIND UNHAPPINESS ELSEWHERE. NEXT IT WILL BE YOUR NOSE, THEN YOUR LIPS ……………..
JUST REMEMBER SEX IS VERY VERY GOOD. BUT LIKE ALL THINGS IT IS NOT EVERYTHING. (TO SOME YOUNG PEOPLE THIS MIGHT SOUND TOO LOFTY) BUT WE ACTUALLY DONT LIVE FOR SEX…………. LIFE IS SO MUCH MORE.
TRUE HAPPINESS COMES FROM KNOWING WHO YOU ARE AND WHAT YOUR MISSION IN LIFE IS.
START WITH CHRIST.
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Size really matters. In my opinion a small and average size is okay but a very big one is just something else. I had to run away from husband after one year’s marriage coz I could not stand him. His pernis was very very big maybe it was abnormal I don’t know. Instead of enjoying it I dreaded sex coz each time was time of pain and agoin.
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That means some of us are quiet lucky. Frankly ive read of these stories of other men worried to death about their sizes but tell you what ? Its really not a big issue . Nyaya iripo ndeye kugona kushandisa. In leyma’s terms , nomatter how small it is, the true weapon is how to use the shaft.
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Veduwee size ine basa, kangu gero rikangokosora chete kanobva kabuda saka ndodii nhai. Mbudzi kubarira pane vanhu kuti idzingirwe imbwa.
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I used to hear that line a lot………….
anombokosora pabonde ndiani?
besides.
The question is….
do we really know how to respesct, love, cherish and honour our partners.
Does the way you handle your woman make her single girlfriends want to have a man too? or do they say haaa me I have to wait handidi kuitwa so.
Does the way you handle our man make his single pals wanna run out a look for a fine woman like you.
If you have kids, do they wanna grow up and be like you loving theie wives and husbands, or do they say “I dont wanna play house, it makes my mamma cry”
These are the fundamentals.
Chinhu chihombe chiri pabenzi is pointless. Its like having credit card in the jungle.
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Dear Parks Papindanyoka,
I agree with your points. Could you please tell me what kind of herbs are used to tighten the vagina after childbirth? Are any of them available in Canada? I am pregnant and really would love to know because size does matter! Thank you!
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Pammy it fan that pple do not accept reality. Size really matters, this is from experience, becoz i i was left three time for having a small pimp. but a sekuru gave me a herb which really changed my size amd now wese wandino bata asks for some more. uye kana neni i can feel the difference. so size really matters a lot
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YES size matter.
When it is too small you got problem, it will go in and out and when it is to big, it will hurt you like hell, and when it fits right or normally then it is great. However, some woman have their own preference and to me, the right side is better.
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Symbro sekuru vako varipiko vakakuita murume. Ini ndatambura ndinodawo zihombe athough i am managing very well with my current size. Iriko here mishonga yekugadzirisa dambudziko iri nokuti kwandakambofamba hapana chakabuda zvokuti ndavakutoti hakuna mushonga yakadaro.I am in Zimbabwe and munongozivawo kuti ladies here vanoda kunatsotemwa kuti vadzikame. Varume kutsva kwendebvu vanodzimurana .Vanoziva ngavaudze vamwe tibatsirane sezvo tose tine basa rekuita. Can someone help me out there?
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Women always gasp when it come to making love, my 9″ really does give most of the women I’v been with cringe
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Ko diameter/thickness haina kumbotaurwa coz vamwe mune zvenyu hombe but katepu-tepu!
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varume Zimbabwe inenharo. ndichangopindawo pa internet but nyaya yenyu ine nharo.inini wese wandabata anoti Daddy hapana anonaka semi.pekutanga ndakamboti kungotaura but zvawanda sezvaJudasi.vamwe vakati une chipo.so kwandiri ndotenda Mwari nemidzimu SIZE ndizvo woisevenzesawoka nhai munin’ina
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size and thickness matters ,so if you have neither find other methods to pleasure her so that she does not concentrate of your short cumings(exuse the pun)
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